Sex is one of the essential things that all living organisms do in their lifetime. When we humans reach sexual maturity, we become incredibly charged with a lot of sexual energy and will be in need of a release, when we can’t find a sexual partner, all we can do about the sexual energy is release it through masturbation. Self-pleasuring is one of the best things you can do to yourself as it is very beneficial to your prostate and it even reduces stress.
Getting back to sex, it is the reason our world is so overpopulated. Sex is very enjoyable, so everyone does it, whenever they get the chance. There are a lot of ways one can enjoy sex. No one is perfect in the bedroom but here are a few mistakes that men need to avoid so that the entire experience is greatly enjoyable to both the parties.
Mistake 1: Most men aren’t attentive when it comes to foreplay.
Men get turned on as easily as a lamp, but for women, getting turned on is an elaborate process and does not happen so fast. A man needs to put a lot of effort into making sure he is giving his lady some sweet loving. He has to kiss her in erogenous zones and show her that he is there to please her. Foreplay plays a pivotal role for both the genders in getting aroused. This indeed creates a natural lubricant in the vaginal area of the woman and discharges something know as ‘pre-cum’ through the penis of a man.
Mistake 2: Assuming what the woman wants in sex.
A woman is a complex being; you need to be vocal with her and communicate what they want and don’t want during sex. Women on the majority fake orgasms, because they don’t want to disappoint their man. Literally, ask for directions, it’s okay, not everyone is a pro. It is okay if you need time to learn.
Mistake 3: Sticking to set plan.
A man might have a thought process that, if it worked the last time it is bound to work this time. What arouses a woman may depend on her mood. Her mood may have been different the last time. Don’t be afraid to mix it up and try new things and see the response that you get.
Mistake 4: Keeping it physical.
Expand your mind when it comes to foreplay because some men tend to focus only on the physical stimulation of a woman and tend to forget the mental factor and stimulation. Men easily get turned on from physical stimulation during sex, but women do fantasize a lot during sex, and that is a part of the arousal. Join her and talk about fantasies or a sexy memory that you both love.