The vast majority of men would never even consider such a scenario. Men, even those who utilize the services provided by an escort, would never allow themselves to develop feelings for an escort because she would simultaneously have sex with other men while dating that man. There are so many insecurities that are tackled in such a relationship. Men worry if their escort girlfriend gets recognized in public, what if I am just one of many men she is dating? Am I exposing myself to STDs and STIs, etc. these are some of the things that would go on in a man’s head if he dates an escort.
Men, in their very nature, are hardwired to be jealous of any physical intimacy their significant other would get from literally anyone. So yes it would be incredibly challenging for a normal man to accept that his girlfriend sees and has sex with other men. I, personally would never be okay with something like that. When talking about sexually transmitted diseases and infections, the women and men in the escorting industry get tested the most and always carry and use condoms with all of their clients.
Exclusivity and being in a mutually monogamous relationship is integral to the foundation of any bond in a relationship that you are hoping to build. In a perfect world, you wouldn’t have to share your significant other with anyone, they would never cheat on you and you both would live happily ever after. But do we live in a perfect world? No, we don’t.
In my expert opinion, don’t do it; don’t date an escort. Not while she’s still escorting anyway. It usually never ends well for both of you. Here’s an instance that might sway you.
Once I met an escort in the night around 9 pm, we went out for a nice dinner, after dinner, we headed to my hotel room. After getting there, she just asked me if I would ever date an escort. The young soul in me screamed YES! I simply agreed and took her personal phone number. We dated for a few months. The fact that she used to have sex with at least 8 men in a week killed me on the inside almost every day. Finally, I couldn’t take it anymore after month number 4. I sat her down and told her that I cared for her too much and I couldn’t bear what was going on with her.
After genuinely loving her, she had the nerve to say “you can see other women if you want, I’m not stopping you”. I was trying to make her understand that I wanted us to be exclusive. But I guess it was too much to ask, I was asking her to give up her career. Anyway, it did end in a bittersweet way. We still talk on occasion, but I truly believe I should never have gone out with an escort, romantically.